The spaces in which we find ourselves are becoming more diverse by the day, owing to immigration and sometimes government policy. This diversity could take the form of ethnicity, gender, race, religion, or even political ideologies and affiliations. Accepting, respecting, and appreciating these differences is what we call tolerance.

We are both fortunate and unfortunate to live in the age of information. While the internet and globalization have provided opportunities to learn more about and appreciate diversity, they have also given us tools to project our prejudices. Education alone is not enough to eliminate the bias. Just like any other values we hold, tolerance can be taught early on in life.

Oftentimes tolerance stems from a place of compassion, understanding that we are human regardless, and acknowledging our privilege. Children learn from observation, borrowing from our behavior, attitude, and utterances. It is therefore critical that we check ourselves before we talk about what is and is not right for our children.

Start From Home

Tolerance begins at home. The basis for how children conduct themselves is formed at home. As a parent, you should model desirable behavior and discourage any form of disrespect in the house. Children can also learn tolerance by appreciating the differences in the family.

Discourage Stereotypes 

 Stereotyping could take the form of a joke or random comment, and kids pick that up. They are beliefs or ideas associated with people from certain groups in society and can be a tool that fuels intolerance. It is a form of discrimination that should be avoided, however innocent they may be.

Open Discussion

Conversations about diversity and tolerance should be encouraged to help children better understand tolerance. Clearly explain to them what it means to be tolerant, indifferent, and intolerant. Give room for questions, offering honest and clear answers. Children are often wondering, and it should be allowed, but there needs to be a sense of mindfulness when addressing diversity. 

Exposure

It is imperative that children experience different environments and people. This kind of exposure helps to open their mind to a world other than their own. It makes them appreciate their privilege as well as the diversity around them. Children should understand that they too can be seen as different from others. 

Limiting Entertainment

Sources of information and entertainment like books, music, or even tv shows that may send messages of intolerance, should be discouraged.

Promoting Your Culture

Through cultural festivities and regular practices, children are made aware of their ethnic identity. Educating them on their customs as well as those of other communities promotes a sense of appreciation for their culture as well as that of others.

In Conclusion

Intolerance starts and ends at home. Whatever lessons your children pick at home, they end up teaching their friends and vice versa. To foster a community of tolerant individuals it takes more than one parent or teacher. It is a communal affair that may have far-reaching consequences if not thoroughly addressed.